About HOLD
Often, when people fear judgment or worry about sharing their deep emotions, they stay silent. Bottling up these feelings can lead to anger or frustration toward loved ones, or worse, unhealthy coping mechanisms.
At HOLD, we never want you to feel alone. Our listeners are trained by founder Deb Porter, who holds a 96-hour MDIV specializing in care and counseling from the University of Dubuque Theological Seminary, including three units of Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE). Deb brings a wealth of experience as a hospital chaplain, spousal caregiver (now divorced), former homeschool parent, and funeral arranger. No matter which listener you meet, you will feel truly heard.
HOLD listeners are not therapists, but friendly, compassionate listeners. You won't get platitudes or clichés, but genuine understanding and acceptance.
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"Your call yesterday--I can't even begin to tell you how much that meant to me. I can honestly tell you, it got me through the day. I appreciate it more than you may ever know. Thank you for listening. Thank you for your kind and encouraging words. THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING." (emphasis - client)
"Wow, I did not expect the sense of relief to be so immediate and tangible. Thank you!" - AMK
"This is an incredible service - the kind of thing that makes you wonder how you ever lived without it, and why you didn't think of it yourself! GREAT way to unload tough stuff you'd rather not divulge to someone you know." -Anonymous
Learn More About Deb Porter
At 19, Deb felt called to help people. Not many know what their purpose is at 19, but her formative years led to a deep understanding of the importance of communication.
Early in her life, she served as a pastor. After some years, a family member came out and changed her desire to stay in the church. Ultimately she made the decision to step down from her role. She believes love is love.
After she pivoted away from the church, her focus shifted towards caring for her then very ill husband. It took over her time and energy and her role changed from mom to caregiver almost overnight. She struggled when her two kids were young to balance her parenting role while being a full-time ICU level caregiver to her husband. It was during these very dark times, HOLD began to form, unbeknownst yet to Deb.
Eventually her husband recovered and regained his health. However 75% of marriages where long term caregiving is involved end in divorce and Deb found herself unexpectedly in that statistic. The couple chose to divorce shortly after his recovery. As Deb grieved the loss of her marriage she was also preparing her next move.
Following her husband’s departure, she started working at a funeral home. Once again, the universe was planting seeds for what would later become HOLD. Deb found herself caring for others, however this time it was for those who had lost a loved one.
Often, these times can be complicated and very emotional for family members and Deb found herself talking to and consoling many who simply needed a listening ear. She was present, listening to their pain without offering advice or judgment. She simply listened, something she wished she had during her time of caregiving for her husband.
Then one day Deb found herself once again in a moment of preparation to pivot. The funeral home she had been working for could no longer pay her what she needed to make ends meet. This was the ultimate push into entrepreneurship she needed.
Deb finally thought of all she could do with no limitations as she soaked in the knowledge and expanded her imagination with works from Napoleon Hill and Abraham Hicks. Her pure desire to serve and help people feel understood, heard and loved was finally beginning to take shape. It was in these moments she took a leap of true faith to follow her 19 year-old heart to help people. From that expansion and imagination, HOLD came to life.
Deb finally stepped fully into her superpower, to listen.
Listen with empathy.
Listen with acceptance.
Listen with understanding.
Listen with compassion.
Listen with love.
Experience the amazing feeling of being truly heard for yourself, or take one of the courses and discover the power of listening in your life.
