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What Every New Mom Really Needs (That You Won’t Find in a Baby Basket) Aug 03, 2025

There’s something sacred about the quiet that follows a baby shower. The streamers come down, the cupcakes disappear, and you’re left surrounded by diapers, soft onesies, and the promise of a new beginning. It looks like abundance. But sometimes, wha...

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Being Heard Is a Basic Human Need Jul 27, 2025

When we think of human needs, we tend to focus on survival: air, water, food—and maybe shelter. These are undeniably essential. But they aren’t the only needs people have.

To truly thrive—to feel alive and connected and whole—we also need emotional ...

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The Weight of Invisible Labor: Why Feeling Unseen Hurts Jul 20, 2025

There’s a kind of work that doesn’t show up on a to-do list—but still takes everything you’ve got.

It’s the thought work. The remembering. The planning. The anticipating.
It’s the “we’re low on toothpaste,” the “whose birthday is this weekend,” and t...

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How to Support Someone After Surgery: Listening, Compassion, and Practical Help Jul 13, 2025

How to Support Someone After Surgery: Listening, Compassion, and Practical Help

If you've ever sat in the tension of wanting to help someone after surgery but not knowing what to say or do, you're not alone. The impulse to help is a beautiful thing—...

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Regulate. Relate. Reason. Jul 06, 2025

Emotional dysregulation. It’s a big phrase with a very real impact—especially in parenting, relationships, and even leadership. When someone is dysregulated, it means their brain has flipped into a stress response. They’re not thinking clearly, not r...

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Breaking the Stigma: Talking About Mental Health in Small Communities Jun 29, 2025

I grew up in a small town in Iowa.

One of those places where everyone knew each other, doors were left unlocked, and your business was never truly just your own. There were a lot of good things about it—community, connection, traditions that ran dee...

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